Almost 2 years ago, my partner and I made the big decision to move in her aging parent with us to become her caregivers.
There was a lot of responsibility and changed that came with that. And cooking was one of the biggest things to adjust to.
This video is from last year, but I thought I would post it again. Because it was a great soup and a good meal idea for a family with an elderly parent.
Our aging parent will require soft and lower sodium food. Of course the rest of the family doesn’t. So I always need to make meals two ways. Sometimes there are super simple adjustments like just adding a bit more salt to the rest of the families at the end. And then sometimes those adjustments are a bit more.
This is how I make a healthy, easy soup for lunch that works for our aging parent and the rest of the family.

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✨️hiii there dearest lola✨️ you go-go-go girl cracking the code to flavors n feeding our loved ones younger older n in-between cause we're all just human beings trying to just simply be in this life…. the food looks great!!! I'd like to talk with some of the admin exects in geriatric social services here in florida on implementing dietary changes within the community!?.!?.!?. it's sooo important for us to look into the future for positive change cause it's coming for all us nomatter how hard we wanna fight it!!! stay well y'all n keep up the great work!!!
❤️🥘❤️
That looks absolutely delicious and full of love
Trying to give everyone at the table almost the same food but in a way everybody can enjoy it is such a big thing.
Her healthy is not your healthy, but you still make her feel like a part on the family meal and not left out ❤
Lola? Is that her name or did you marry into a Filipino fam? 😀 Lola is grandma in Filipino.
I loveee soft mushy food lol ♡ lolas food always looks so cozy and comforting to me haha
This is so beautiful ❤
😭😭😭😭😭 we are living long enough to see the gays move their elderly parents into their homes???? I didnt expect to feel so overwhelmed by that. like not that we are in 2025 living long enough… like the gays are living long enough for their life to happen😭 we have come so far
She reminds me of my tai ma 😮❤❤ this is what my grandparents did (even tho my grandma couldn’t speak Cantonese so there was a bit of charades happening there)
I cook for my 83 year old Mother in law and want to thank you for doing these videos. Finally real life shorts.❤
🥰 This is a wonderful meal made with so much love and consideration. Blessings to you. 🎉😍💌👍🏽
What is sodium?
What do you mean you and YOUR wife’s mother?!?? You are both women so that phrase doesn’t make any sense?!??!